Because Of You (因为你) - Kelly Clarkson (凯丽·克拉森)
Written by:Kelly Clarkson/David Hodges/Ben Moody
I will not make
The same mistakes that you did
I will not let myself
Cause my heart so much misery
I will not break
The way you did you fell so hard
I've learned the hard way
To never let it get that far
Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt
Because of you
I find it hard to trust not only me but everyone around me
Because of you
I am afraid
I lose my way
And it's not too long before you point it out
I cannot cry
Because I know that's weakness in your eyes
I'm forced to fake
A smile a laugh everyday of my life
My heart can't possibly break
When it wasn't even whole to start with
Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt
Because of you
I find it hard to trust not only me but everyone around me
Because of you
I am afraid
I watched you die
I heard you cry every night in your sleep
I was so young
You should have known
Better than to lean on me
You never thought of anyone else
You just saw your pain
And now I cry in the middle of the night
For the same damn thing
Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt
Because of you
I try my hardest just to forget everything
Because of you
I don't know how to let anyone else in
Because of you
I'm ashamed of my life
Because it's empty
Because of you
I am afraid
Because of you
Because of you
BecauseofYou是我歌单中唯一一首从建立到现在都还存在的一首歌,除了喜欢它的旋律外,歌词诉说一个很沉重的话题——家庭暴力,引起我的沉思。
歌曲MV:是根据凯莉·克莱森自己的亲身经历改编而成的。MV的开头,女主人公与丈夫在家中吵架;而后,丈夫拿起全家福准备砸掉;这时,时间静止了,这让女主角想到了自己童年的遭遇。于是,场景转换到了过去,女主人公穿越回到了她父母吵架的那个时间,并遇到了当时还是个小女孩的自己,并同她一同看着冷漠的父母,而父母也因为感情不和而经常激烈吵架,小时候的女主人公变成了父母战争的牺牲品。
忽然,场景又回到了现实,女主人公猛然从回忆中醒来,她看着丈夫,轻轻的从丈夫的手中拿下差点被摔碎的全家福照片,时间也在此时恢复原样,女主人公与丈夫抱在一起。然而,当他们拥抱在一起的时候呀,忽然看到了躲在在门后偷看的女儿,于是女主人公与丈夫一同朝女儿走来,开心的抱在一起。
《BecauseOfYou》是一个受伤孩子,在他的内心诉说的歌。时间的跨度,给了我们反省的机会。每一个成人都曾是孩子,他们的内心也都有一个需要重新抚慰的孩子。而每一个成人更有责任使事情不再重蹈覆辙,因为孩子没有能力保护自己。
“听一次哭一次,想起自己的童年,听到了当年自己的挣扎和痛苦。但时至今日,已经学会了释怀和原谅,选择了和父亲完全不一样的人,过上了和母亲完全不一样的人生,努力给孩子一个温馨美满的家庭和童年。不能说阴影不在,只能说我有了直视它的勇气。”
“不能把所有迄今为止我尚无成就的原因归咎于原生家庭带给我的阴影和伤害,但是成人后的这些年我一直试图去修补自己过去的创伤,试图去摆脱那些羁绊我脚步的顾虑与恐惧,比起成家立业我更关注自我修复。一个人如果不能学会爱自己怎么才能爱生活爱别人呢?”
《BecauseofYou》不仅是情感的表达,更是一种呼声,具有积极的社会意义。一首虐心又温情的歌曲,是关爱那些儿童,呼吁和谐家庭的歌,应该让许多人都明白,家庭冲突最大的受害者,往往不是冲突的双方,而是无辜的孩子。
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